只不過愛寫字,寫了十年。

2011年10月30日星期日

『 我不好· 然而最起码我不坏· 不像你·』



『 我不好· 然而最起码我不坏· 不像你·』




幸福其实不能拿来炫耀·
毕竟· 炫耀了· 又能怎么样呢?
自己能够更加幸福吗?
答案· 显而易见的是不能够·
=)


幸福不是拿来炫耀的·
而是让真心的人明白自身的感谢·


心胸宽大· 正面思想的人呢·
肯定肯定· 会真心祝福以及正面看待·
他们会懂得· 某些文字写出来· 只为了留下一时的心情·
以及· 让被感激的人· 看见·


然而· 我想·
这是你这样小人心态的三姑六婆无法产生共鸣的·
别人说些什么· 写些什么·
只要没关连到你· 那么关你屁事啊?


别人没有诋毁你· 没有唱衰你·
更没有得罪你·
我不曾挑衅· 你何必口出恶言?



别把自己当作圣人一般·
我就不相信· 你不曾公开写下任何一句说·
『 我很幸福· 因为身边有着谁谁谁· 』
还是· 你认为·
只有你自己可以有着这样普遍的感受与心情?



然而·
像你这样的人类·
敢做却不敢当· 我看不起·
同样的· 也不想加多理会·
毕竟· 气得内伤的会使自己· 不划·



欲盖弥彰的留下否认的字句·
我想· 如果你能够对着那些所谓对你很了解的好朋友·
对她们说· 『我真的不是在讲她· 』
那样· 公信力也许能更强一些·

我深信· 知你如她· 肯定明嘹你所谓的心情·
我可以相信你的否认· 然而她们呢?

我不在乎· 这样的事件与文字以后·
你又会像以前一样· 怎样怎样的· 对着你那一群“好朋友”·
如何的渲染· 说服· 她们的脑袋相信我的负面·
如果是脑袋有判断能力的话·
我相信任何人都能够自己选择喜欢谁或讨厌谁·



其实你的小动作· 你的言语·
别人都懂· 只是不说出来· 不想让彼此难看那样而已·
而你· 却一再的· 单面敲锣·





最后一段· 我想说·
如果我是对号入座·
那你又何必针对我的对号入座而对号入座·
我也可以· 不是在回应你啊· 不是吗?





『我没有气很大· 只是认为很多事情不能一味的沉默·
让别人按着来打· 』



语·
301011
0618pm

16 条评论:

匿名 说...

haha you stupid..a player like you don't deserve a shit..you're just a little more lucky than the others.

Just how pathetic that you can't survive upon your own, without friends you're nothing.

So stop showing off of what you've got right now, nothing last forever.

Karma will hit you.

xia0yu ♥ 说...

从来不需要和别人解释我的爱情观·
因为像你这样的小人啊· 总有自己的理由去推翻别人的想法· 把自己的小人的心态放进里面去·

而且就算我是player· 关你鸟事?
重点是· 爱过我的人都没说话· 你不知头不知尾就乱呛声·


是啊· 我就是不能独立的人啊· 我不引以为耻·
without friends im nothing . thats true. 但是我比你幸运的是· 我有朋友而且还没多是真心的·


就算别人放个小屁你都会说别人show off得啦·
不过没关系了· 现在你都看不见我的任何的话了· 烂人· 滚动出我的生活·


告诉你一个小秘密· 你背后的冷箭绝对不比我少· 是我握有筹码却没攻击你而已· 那时候你们一堆人去旅行· 两辆车· 一上车的时候另一辆车的人拼了命说你坏话· 而且回来还告诉我啊· 你认为你的人缘好到那里?


我不想去争执了· 尤其对你这样的说了不敢认· 写留言骂人也要匿名的人·
我想· 你怕是怕以后难以收拾· 又要对你所谓的“好朋友们” 说· 『不是我来的咯· 她自己以为是我』

看不起你的人格·



311011
0852am

匿名 说...

Did you ever realized that your so call good friends besties are all guys? Do you know what does it means? You are just lucky that you have a quite attractive look that enough for you to hook up other guys. Think about it.

When i say a player like you don't deserve anything, I really mean it. Look at the guys you hook up with in college, I think you can't even remember all their names. People don't attack you in the public because they respect you and themselves, unlike you always disrespect others and vain at all time. What comes around goes around, and you know it best.

You pretty much rely on your friends on everything, people always help you because of your weak characters, because you always show people you need help and then you can get a free ride, because you always want attention and sympathy from the others, in this case I mean guys. One day when you're no longer attractive, that's when you gonna lose everything of yours.

How many of your good friends left you? I think you know more clearly than me, and why is it keep happening, it's because of your personalities.

Please do not show off about how happy you are how lucky you are. Look at your birthday celebrations, it's all guys. Imagine if you're not that good looking, you won't have all these, guys celebrating with you. And for all I pity your boyfriend, seriously.

To me you're just a girl who likes to use your appearance and weak characters to gain sympathy from others, to get what you're not suppose to get. I don't like to use harsh words but bitch is what describe you all.

xia0yu ♥ 说...

难道· 好朋友是男生都必须被评论?
谁说单纯的友情不能只存在在男女之间·

重点是· 我不曾招惹你什么·
请问· 那· 关你什么事?


7次庆生里面· 我的好朋友分量其实是一样的·
第一次是 lenglengloo 发起的·
而三次是 jingyi 发起的·
而还有一次是eva 发起的·
除了一次是我男朋友发起的·
其他三次男生发起的也是同比分的·
请问· 这代表了什么?
你可不可以· 看清楚· 查清楚· 再无中生有?


这两天我一直想说的只是·
我没有挑衅过· 或者招惹过你任何事情·
你何必· 这样偏激?

就算我的样子让我比较多男性朋友·
所以呢? 又关你什么事?
我的爱情观· 究竟关你什么事?!
你是想和我交朋友· 还是想和我谈恋爱·?
对不起· 我不是同性恋·



我从来不想把脆弱那面掩藏起来·
每个人都希望别疼被帮助·
很抱歉· 我就是懦弱的想被别人帮助·
很抱歉· 我就是依赖着朋友和他们一起共存·
很抱歉· 我就是习惯有人疼我·

我一直都不曾试图隐藏说· 我一个人不能够好好的过活· 那么· 又碍到你什么了呢? 究竟你的讨厌出至于哪里?


你说我有很多朋友离我而去吗?
我最好的学记朋友· 当初因误会而离开了我· 可是我们回来了· 而且她还是第一个约我庆祝生日的·
我的朋友会因为误会而离开·所以也能够回来·
那你呢?

你有多少朋友离开了你? 只因为你的小心眼? 只因为你想现在这样的无中生有呢?


我真的没有对你口出恶言过· 到底为什么一定要这样? 我不明白·


就当我异性缘真的比较好· 而我就像你所说的bitch吧·
够了· 不想吵了·
以后见面不说话就好· 我觉得超到最后其实大家都没有益处· 算我输了· 你是赢家· 好了吗?

再见· 敢写不敢认的烂人·

匿名 说...

I think respect is gain through your own personality.

if you think that xiaoyu has such a bad personality then you just can ignore her,disrespect her or just unfriend her.

I really have to give u some applause since you are making SO MUCH effort to read her blog, observe her personal life, see all her pictures, how she communicate with her friends & bf to have the conclusion that she is vain, bitchy and manipulative of her friends, especially guys as you mention. Then i too can conclude that you are JEALOUS of her since people only notice things that they can't have.

Also how can you measure if a person is respecting others or not. I think only the individual can decide whether they want to respect another person or not and not judge by others.

As for being vain, i think being women is all about vain. Everyone will care about their appearances is just that some make more efforts while others don't.

As for her boyfriend, i think unless you are involve their couple's relationship like for example her bf's mum, sis, father or maybe his WIFE, then i don't think you have that much right to judge and give comment on how they communicate in the relationship.

By the way, if you feel that she gain favours by being "a girl who likes to use your appearance and weak characters to gain sympathy from others" as you mention. Then why don't you try it too and see whether you can achieve anything by it. I'm sure you know that such useless skill will bring you to nowhere. Everything that xiaoyu got is through her own and her friends effort to have mutual trust and strong friendship. Well, from here i can see that you are so pure and innocent that you have only girl friend.

Also, are you saying that only attractive women/girls is able to hook up with guys as you mention ("You are just lucky that you have a quite attractive look that enough for you to hook up other guys.")? I think this is an insult to all women. So inner beauty is not important, all women will be unable to married if they are ugly, is that what u want to say?

Nothing will last forever but every word that you type will last forever in the internet for everyone to see.

However, this is just my thoughts to some unknown person which may be a NOBODY in the REAL WORLD.

Still, i really really want to say THANK YOU for taking the time to read xiaoyu's blog which you hate so much where in reality, you can just don't open and don't read it and also to use your time to give some comments to her since you have no friends to be with when you are free. Thanks so much.

Sincerely.
CJY (at least i have the guts to give my intital since xiaoyu knows who i am.)

ps: if karma really hit her, then all of us will know who you are since most probably you will be the one who laughs at other misfortunes.

匿名 说...

楼上的,你说得太好了!
这种无聊人不就是妒忌,看不得别人好。

亲爱的语,你有我们,我们懂你就好。
不用理这种烂人 =)

from bi

xia0yu ♥ 说...

两个女人对我的维护· 我看见了·
谢谢你们·
谁说我只有男人缘· 你们验证了这不实的指控·

Jasmine GOH · 谢谢你让我看见了好朋友的力量·
烂人· 希望你也拥有你的好朋友· 不要再有这么多空闲的时间来无端端口出恶言了· 谢谢·

匿名 说...

Seriously bitch, can you please understand one theory. Try not to judge or even insult one's life if you don't even understand that person much. Simply because you don't have the rights to.

O yea 1 more thing bitch, ever imagine what's life is without true friends? Go look at the mirror then you will realized 1 thing, it's that person in it. I bet you have not much friends like that lucky lady does and get jealous, no wait should be desperate and then turn to hate.

And speaking of gender balancing, come on, if a man with tons of female besties does that mean hes a playboy? If a girl with tons of male friends, does that mean she's a slut? If you think 'yes', I bet your brain malfunctioned.

Such a waste of time talking to such person, but to be honest, you really need to stop hating other's life. Why? cause that mean you don't have a life that makes you laugh but cry and so you start to hate. Seriously, get the fuck out of other people's fucking life. Get yourself a happy one.

Good luck, BITCH
Love, Adam Jensen.

xia0yu ♥ 说...

thanks to my adam jensen. i know who you are =)

Lov3PilloW 说...

我只能说好可笑~
有异性缘不等同滥交,请搞清楚。

如果有真人把异性缘当成是她们滥交的对象,那我们也不会去理会她~因为那根本就是不对的行为。

况且,世界也不是你想得那么黑暗的~
不是任何一个人都像你一样以外貌交朋友。

交朋友是拿出真心的。

如果你说有异性缘就是bitch的话,那么我也只能感叹,你所谓的异性缘就是滥交类型的,而不是我们所说的有更多异性朋友。或者你的生活里面比较保守,只要有男生跟你接触就是bitch?

纵使小语真的很弱,她还是会有一班真心朋友在旁支持她,鼓励她,而不是你所说的给与同情心。

朋友不是拿来同情的,朋友是应该互相帮忙,包容,谅解的。(你应该不明白吧?如果你明白也不会说出那些话了~)

最后想纠正你的一点就是,庆祝她生日的并不是只有男生,如果你眼睛看不清楚,或者是照片不够大,放大看看吧,反正你很多时间啊~~~

千万不要以偏概全哦~这是不道德的行为~^.^

不要看了别人生活的一小部分来判断人家,请仔细想,这样做到底对你有什么好处。

一点好处都没有,只是把你的人格一再贬低,外加丢在地上践踏。

所以,请你不要再干涉别人的生活,也别让别人有机会在让你看不顺眼,继续活在你的梦想世界会更理想哦~^.^

[彬] 说...

人家幸福是人家的事,你不祝福也别骂人家bitch!匿名的那个!

kelly 说...

语;
永远 不需要向朋友解释你自己 因为就算不需要解释 他们也会了解你
永远 不需要向敌人解释你自己 因为不管你怎么解释 他们也不相信你
欢迎那对号入座的人们;
你不过就是吃不到葡萄说葡萄酸嘛 小姐 嫉妒 只会让原本长得不讨好的你 更让人讨厌
你花了那么多时间 看了小语的部落格 小雨的照片 小雨的点滴 不就是因为你羡慕妒忌吗?小语拥有你所没能拥有的一切 所以你嫉妒 然后像个走火的炮鸡 胡乱开火!
如果 你希望得到大家的关注 这可以说是个好办法 但搞清楚 大家更关注的 是小语的感受 而你只是个陪衬品
不得不佩服你骂人的功力 但是要搞清楚 不是我们不会骂人 只是我们不想骂人 要记得 不会吼的老虎 它不是猫!
我们从不奢望你能了解我们 但是请不要假装很认识我们 更不要假装了解我们的文字 那样很让人反感你知道吗? 愿天神保佑你吧.

匿名 说...

it's funny seeing how your supporters and your pets side you, but i believe one day you all will regret, when she turns her back on you all, like how she treated her friends in the past.

匿名 说...

=.=.... come on

Adam Jensen

ahwei 说...

虽然我只是你的学姐,也没有和你有太多往来,不过还是想说几句话。
其实不管你人品、性格、行为如何,重点是:关她屁事。
只能说你树大招风了,而且如果我没有看错的话,她一直在称赞你长得漂亮,异性缘很好,如果她说她不嫉妒,畜牲才信。噢,可能她自己会信。opps,我骂人了吗?应该没有。
虽然跟语微没什么交情,但这种人看了让人觉得恶心。miss, please go get your own life.
然后我当然是要以真名示人啦,才不怕有人寻仇呢!

Phoebe Yeoh 说...

haizzz
真的不明白
为什么会有人无聊到这种地步

如果说人家男生朋友多就是bitch
那你比bitch还要bitch

你很丑陋

可能你长得不错
但你的嫉妒心已经让你变得更加丑陋

真心交朋友
被你讲到养宠物
可见你没有遇过所谓真心朋友
你的人生还真是悲哀

有完没完啊
硬要开战

不要这么偏激
一只攻击无辜的人
你的生活就只有这些可以做吗?
无聊人

你很寂寞吗?
干涉别人生活
很好玩吗?


要为身边的幸福和真心朋友微笑
不要让这些无谓的人气坏自己
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